Sunday, January 28, 2007

Achieve Great Relationship


How to Achieve Great Relationship


You have to live with the decisions and the actions that you make.
Perhaps you could save yourself the embarrassment of failure and rejection if you just pretend that you have never heard the difference between good partners and great ones.
Instead, you would make sure that your performance is top notch and if it is, then you probably will not have to ask for the raise.
Make sure that you ask questions that promote a positive direction not only for yourself but also especially for the future of your relationship.
Be consistent in love with the words that you speak and especially in the words that you do not speak.
Where you are right now in life is the result of the kind of questions that you ask.
When I am not sure how to model myself as a great partner in a particular situation I like to ask the question, "How would the partner I'd like to be do the thing I want to do?
Greatness as a partner demands that you expand your ability to love.
Make sure that this is done to the best of your ability.
It means doing things that you do not feel like doing and listening to the same complaint over and over again.

Saturday, January 13, 2007

Tips on Vegetarian Gourmet Ingredient


Ben Ehinger wrote:


My 5 Gourmet Ingredient, Vegetarian Cooking Done Right


Are you a vegetarian or thinking about becoming a vegetarian? Do you want to know how to become a vegetarian that can cook great meals? Learn the 5 ingredients that I use to make just about any vegetarian meal taste better.


The first ingredient that I will introduce to you is garlic. Garlic is a spectacular for cooking and can add a ton of flavor to just about anything. If you are a true vegetarian you use olive oil or something other than butter to cook with. This means that garlic will be even better for you because garlic gains a wonderful and potent flavor when you cook with olive oil.


That leads me to my second ingredient, olive oil. Olive oil is a wonderful oil for cooking and comes directly from the land. Make sure to use extra virgin olive oil because it is richer in minerals and is has a more pure taste. Even adding a dash to a salad or using olive oil to create a vinaigrette dressing can add a great flavor.


This brings me to my third ingredient, red wine vinegar, which is very popular to create the vinaigrette I just mentioned. Red wine vinegar has a very natural and great flavor. It goes well with many vegetables and actually is great when mixed into a fruit salad full of melons. If you are a vegetarian that eats fish, then you will love using red wine vinegar when cooking fish.


My fourth ingredient for vegetarian cooking is using wines. Both red wine and white wine are great for cooking. Just try cooking squash mixed with other vegetables with white wine. I prefer a good chardonnay. Make sure when you are picking a wine to cook with that you do not go too expensive because the price will not make a big enough difference for your money.


My fifth and final ingredient for vegetarian cooking is liquor. I love to cook with vodka, brandy, whiskey, and tequila. These liquors can all add a great flavor to any vegetarian dish. I love using whiskey and brandy with fruits. You can also mix in other liquors such as flavored liquors. You can experiment with all types and you will be pleasantly surprised by most of them.


Now you have 5 great ingredients to add to your vegetarian dishes. You can invent some wonderful dishes with these ingredients and become a wonderful vegetarian chef.


Friday, January 12, 2007

Guide to Top 10 tips for a perfect will


Guide To Tips on perfect Will


NO ONE likes to talk about death, especially their own. But if you don't make plans on how you want to distribute your worldly wealth while you're still alive, you can leave a host of problems and hardships for your grieving family sort out.
Take the billionaire aviator turned recluse, Howard Hughes. It took 15 years of legal wrangling before his fortune was handed out among surviving family members because he hadn't bothered to make a will.
Maybe he, like many other people, felt daunted or even afraid by the process - or was it the cost?
But in reality, the business of making a will can be quite straightforward and it won't cost the earth provided you are aware of the major pitfalls.
Here are our top ten tips on how to end up with the perfect will.

1. Choose who draws up your will wisely

You can make your own will using a DIY kit available from the local stationers but the process is full of pitfalls and errors are easy to make. Lawyers make a lot more money sorting out badly drafted wills and dealing with claims against those wills, than they make for drawing up wills. DIY is OK for home improvements, but, unless you're extremely confident and knowledgeable, it's not for wills.


2. Choose your executors well

Executors are responsible for exercising your estate in accordance with your instructions after you have died. It is a responsible and demanding role, and involves handling large sums of money. And don't forget to check that the people you choose are happy to take on the role.


3. Appoint a default or substitute executor

If you are married, you will probably want your spouse to be your executor, but don't appoint them as your sole executor. If you both died together in a plane crash or a car accident, neither of you would have an executor living. Always appoint a default or substitute executor as a fall-back position in case your spouse is unwilling or unable to act.


4. Appoint guardians

If you are the last living parent and you die leaving children under age 18, a guardian will be appointed by the court if you have not specified who this should be in your will. If you are unmarried but you and your partner have children, you might not even get guardianship of your children. If an unmarried man dies, his female partner automatically gets guardianship of their children, but if an unmarried woman dies, her male partner does not. You should appoint each other as guardians in your wills to overcome this problem.


5. Appoint trustworthy trustees

This might sound obvious, but if you are setting up a trust in your will or if your beneficiaries could be aged under 18 when you die, you will need to appoint trustees. Trustees will be responsible for managing and investing money, or looking after property until it passes to the beneficiaries, so make sure they are people with a good grasp of financial matters - and that they are still young enough so they don't die before you do.


6. Make specific legacies

If you want to preserve family heirlooms or items of special sentimental value, (for example, a grandfather clock, or a wedding or engagement ring), you should leave these items as a specific legacy to a named beneficiary.


7. Make sure you leave a residual legacy

The 'residue' is what is left over in your estate after you have made any specific legacies. You must specify who this goes to, as if you fail to do so, you will create a partial intestacy in your will. In other words, the small gifts and legacies would pass according to the will, but the residue would be subject to the laws of intestacy.


8. Save tax with a trust

Inheritance tax is becoming a burden for many families, particularly where the value of a property pushes the value of an estate above the nil rate band for inheritance tax. If you are married, you can include a discretionary trust in your wills, which could save your children more £110,000 in inheritance tax at current rates.


9. Sign your will

It's all very well having your will drafted, but if you don't sign it in front of two independent witnesses, it will not be valid. A witness cannot be anyone mentioned in the will or anyone married to anyone mentioned in the will.


10. Get it stored safely

Once your will has been correctly signed and witnessed, have it stored in a proper safe storage facility. This will protect it from fire, flood, damage, or loss. Your executors will be provided with a certificate showing them where your will is stored and how to get hold of it if you die. Whatever you do – don't hide your will. Your will is no good to anyone if it cannot be found after your death.




From:
www.thisismoney.co.uk

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

CHINESE VEGETARIAN FRIED RICE


CHINESE VEGETARIAN FRIED RICE


Serves 2 people

Ingredients

5 dried Chinese mushrooms

2 tablespoons peanut oil

1 tablespoon sesame oil

1 teaspoon finely chopped fresh ginger

1 teaspoon finely chopped garlic

3 cups cooked white Rice

1 cup bean sprouts

1/2 cup frozen peas and carrots

1/4 cup chopped green onions

3 tablespoons soy sauce

Cooking Method



1. Soak mushrooms in warm water for about 15 to 30 minutes. Drain and squeeze excess water from mushrooms.

2. Discard stems and cut mushrooms into thin strips; set aside.

3. In a large skillet, heat oils over high heat and cook ginger and garlic until fragrant, about 1 minute

4. Add mushrooms and stir fry until hot, about 2 minutes.

5. Add cooked rice, bean sprouts, peas and carrots and green onions; stir to combine. Cook until heated through

6. Sprinkle soy sauce evenly over rice; toss and serve.